Dec
9

… turned down an invitation to speak at a business event.

The people who invited me are very nice and the specifics aren’t that far off from what I often do.

But still, it wasn’t quite right.  And so I said, “No thank you.”

You’re not obligated to jump at every opportunity put in front of you. 

If it doesn’t feel right to you – for whatever reason – you’re allowed to walk away.  No explanation required.

4 thoughts on “turned down an invitation to speak at a business event.

  1. Petra

    Hi Michael, this rings 100% true with me. It’s good sometimes to find the strength to decline when something doesn’t feel right. Best wishes from Frankfurt/Germany

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    1. michael Post author

      Glad it hit the spot, Petra! And best wishes right back from rainy/icy Massachusetts!

      Reply
  2. Boris Mahovac RGD

    This should even extend to saying “no” to potential clients, too. If you’re a solo professional, then you’re the one who will have to work with the client, so if you don’t like the prospect of working with that client, just say no.

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    1. michael Post author

      Totally agree, Boris. I think we get so eager to “get the work,” that we forget it’s a two-way decision. I’ve never regretted saying no – but have definitely regretted saying yes!

      Reply

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